should i gift her or not? will it damage our relationship?
Tuesday, June 2nd, 2009So ..I’ve known this girl for about a month now..i met her through a common friend. I personally dont know this girl -i mean i havent’ met her in person at all!! I just talked with her through chats and phone conversations.
Because i havent really spent time with her in person i really cannot say if i have feelings for her or not…but at this stage i enjoy spending time with her (talking on phone, chatting
) …Last week she crossed a milestone in her career..something which she always wanted …i wished her on the phone though. But I also want to gift her something for her achievement. I was thinking i’ll give her a gift card. Also note that valentines day is around!
I dont want to gift her on the valentine’s day because I myself dont know if I want her to by my valentine or not
and if i have feeling for her or not
As such I was thinking i’ll send her a gift before the valentines day.
But I am trying to understand how she would react if someone like me who is just a new friend/acquaintance who she hasnt even met in person till now gifts her a small gift?? What kind of a message will it send?
I dont want to ruin my current friendship with her..do u think sending a gift can damange our current friendship (bcoz she may think that i have strong feelings for her and that may turn her off?? )
thanks for your time!!!
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