Is it weird to send a bachelor gift to my fiance on his party with a friend of his?
July 18th, 2009 | 
Author: Princess06 asked:
He is not the guy that wants to go to the strip clubs so they rented a hummer limo and are going to hooters and downtown to some different bars. Being there guys I figured nobody will get the silly funny embarrassing gifts that girls get. Is it weird that I send a gift bag with one of his friends without a from who tag on it. (just maybe get him some funny edible mens under ware,ball and chain, condom hat). Also my dad is going to hooters with the guys and ordered him a **** cake from the bakery in town. have you ever heard of anyone doing that or is it ***?
ACTUALLY….i said it my paragraph that i was going to NOT put a name on the who it was from tag..i just wanted to ensure that he had fun and a good time! thanks! so no i am not wanting him to be thinking of me!
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Boob cake – Perfectly fine
Gift Bag – Why the hell not?
We run a business based on bachelor parties and found that “props” vary from man to man. In England, they Always have a costume for the groom. It’s usually embarrassing along the lines of a cheerleader outfit, character from a movie, etc. In Scotland, they paint the groom black and drive him around in the back of a truck(no joke). There are no firm rules, so do as you please. In fact, you should put instructions in the box for the men. They are… men after all. Something that we’ve seen work well is to buy a challenge shirt. It lists a variety of tasks the groom has to accomplish that night. Ie.. take a shot, get an unused condom from a stranger, hug 3 random strangers, etc. Sometimes the group will all try to accomplish the list and put money up to the winner. So again, do as you will it couldn’t hurt!
James
FireFly Group Events
What is your motive? Are you doing it to ensure the groom thinks about you on his traditional “last night of freedom”? Why not let him have a good time with his friends. You can give him a gift at the wedding.
Good day,
who made the rules: do what you want.. don’t believe you will get blackballed from high Society over a **** cake..your young and full of hope and life, live it, as long has nobody get hurt, party hardy…good luck
I think it is sweet that you want to make sure he gets some laughs and has a good time. I would go for it if I were you.
why don’t you leave them at his place, so he finds them while getting ready. he can either take them along because he finds them to be funny, or he can leave them at home. Let him have the choice, but at least he will know you are thinking of him.
Men are sometimes more embarrassed by those little toys , maybe its not a good idea :S, instead suggest to his best man that you have “extras” or you know a good place to get them.
that is really weird i woulds still get him a present
sounds like something the best man should do .