has trying to turn my friend straight has ruined our friendship?
June 2nd, 2009 | 
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realggirl asked:
omg i feel like a idiot. we were the best of friends but that just wasnt enough for me. hes so cute and **** and i just had to have him 4 my own. i did little things like got him little gifts and flirted and such, and wore **** clothes around him all the time. one day i took him into the bedroom and started kissing him and he pushed me away and said look uve got to stop trying to change me & accept me as i am. im not homophobic and id be fine with anyone else being *** but not him hes so cute i want him to be my bf!! but now hes not even my friend anymore 
how can i show him that im sorry and really just want to be friends (even when i secretly want more)?
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10 Comments »
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So you were best of friends with someone who was honest with you about being *** and your reaction was that you could prove your feminine power by The One Woman **** Enough to convert him to straight? And you were really, really pushy and embarassingly obnoxious about it?
It doesn’t sound much like friendship to me to consider this guy some sort of *** object trophy who can be used to prove to the world how terrific you are – it sounds more like me, me, me. If you are still secretly wanting more and still not fine with him being *** because you want him to be your boyfriend, then you don’t want to be his friend, you want to change him so he’ll meet your needs. Real friends accept people the way they are so I’d recommend you leave him alone until you get your ego under control.
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If you can’t handle just being friends, maybe it’s better if you and he have some distance from each other. You could write him a note/email telling him how sorry you are. Maybe he’ll come around after he has some time away from you.
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What I personally would do in your place is arrange a bit of private time with him, in a public place where nothing can happen and sit and talk this through.
Explain that he is a very special guy to you, and that if you could, you would love him as a boyfriend, but as that won’t happen, how about you love him like a brother instead.
Explain you realise you were totally in the wrong in trying to make him something that he wasn’t, and that you really miss him being around.
Tell him you respect him for his decision, and that it must have taken something hard to make him realise it and admit it, and that no matter what, you will support him. And mean it.
By showing the ability to apologise when you are wrong, it may also bring a little respect for you back to him, and hopefully bring you back closer, but like brother and sister, not b/f and g/f.
Good luck,
mike t.
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Leave the poor guy alone. If you can’t respect the fact that he’s *** and won’t be interested in “more”, you shouldn’t try to force yourself into his life.
On the other hand, if you can accept that he’s *** and be -just friends- nothing works more than a sincere apology. Maybe a nice gift (favorite candy or cologne) with a big “I’m sorry” card/note might be a good gesture.
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You can’t fool mother nature.
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You need to apologize and DESPITE YOUR MOST INTENSE FEELINGS, stop flirting, being “sexy,” and whatever else you’re doing to attract him. He has cut off communication with you because either (1) your advances make him feel uncomfortable or (2) he doesn’t want to “lead you on” or both.
Accept him as he is, accept the fact that you will never be BF+GF, and build your friendship forward from there. Be aware, any further display of “flirting” or attraction will probably meet with the same cold shoulder because after TELLING him you’re OK with just being his friend, your behavior will belie your words, and no one likes a person who is insincere.
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next time you see him and i quote
“look what happened the other day, im very sorry
its just i love you very much and i couldn’t control
my feelings. you don’t have to accept my apology but
just know that i love you very much.” maybe give him a hug and walk away (if he lets you hug him)
if he doesn’t accept the apology
just be too sad
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look , you have to get over it because you can not be friends with him if you like him that way . and he will not turn straight .period.
if you talk to him and tell him your sorry and you just had a crush for him and that your over it now and would like to be friends with him again , he sure will be
but you HAVE TO be really over it because he will not turn straight ok?
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You better forget about him. There’s a lot of fish in the see, you just have to look for your type.
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Don’t bother.
Do you really think he’s gonna wake up one day and go “OMG!! I’ve just realised I’m not *** and I’m in love with you!!”
Not likely.